Your Complete Guide to Buying Your First Vibrator

Congratulations! You’re ready to dip your toes into the magical world of sex toys. Vibrators can be a powerful way to explore what you like you like and embrace your sexuality. But before you get buzzing, you have an important choice to make—which vibrator you should choose.

Choosing your first vibrator can feel a little intimidating, especially when there are so many options to choose from. There are so many different sizes, materials, shapes, and vibration settings. To add to the pressure, choosing the “wrong” vibrator could even turn you off from toys altogether, which would definitely be a shame!

So, whether it’s your first vibrator or you’re still experimenting to find you like, we’re covering everything you need to know before buying your first vibrator—so you can find the right for you!

Here’s everything you need to know before splurging on your new (and soon-to-be favorite) self-care tool.

Getting Started: Ask Yourself the Right Questions

Maybe you’re looking to spice up your self-pleasure sessions or turn up the heat with your partner. All of us want something a little different—and not all vibrators are created equally. To find the best option for you, you’re going to want to ask yourself a few questions before you start shopping.

• Will you be using your vibrator in bed only?
• Do you want to take it in the shower or bath with you?
• Are you looking for something you can use with a partner?
• Do you want something for clitoral stimulation or vaginal penetration?

Start thinking through these Qs to figure out what you really want to get out of your new sex toy. If you’re not sure what you want to do with your new vibe, it may be good to choose a versatile vibrator that will allow you to experiment with all of these. Once you’ve answered them, it’s time to start shopping.

If you’re not sure where to start, shopping online for a sex toy is one of the best options for first-time buyers. Not only can you get sex toys delivered discreetly, but you can also read reviews, descriptions, and features before committing to your first vibrator.

Choosing the Best Type of Vibrator

Let’s get one thing straight: You don’t have to choose a bullet as your first vibrator.

Sure, they come with some benefits—they’re small, discreet, and usually less expensive—but we recommend splurging on your self-pleasure and starting with something you’re really going to love right from the get go. And for you, this might mean a larger toy that will feel full and smooth when inside you.

Basically, there’s no “best” type of vibrator for beginners. Don’t be afraid to choose something bigger, more phallic, or more powerful if that’s what you’re after! It’s all about figuring out what works for you, your body, and your sexual preferences.

Here are some popular options to consider on your search for the perfect vibrator:

• Clitoral vibrators. If clitoral stimulation works best for you (as it does for most vulva owners), a clitoral vibrator might be the best option. They come in a few different shapes and sizes, from pocket-sized, battery-operated bullets to rechargeable magic wands with different intensity levels.
• G-spot vibrators. Some vulva owners find penetrative sex more fulfulling or want to experiment more with the hidden orgasm zone in their inner wall. G-spot vibes are specifically designed for vaginal penetration, featuring a curved tip for easy G-spot stimulation.
• Dual-action vibrators. Want the best of both worlds? A dual-action vibrator will be your new best friend. Dual-action vibrators (also known as combination or rabbit vibrators) are ideal for vulva owners who want clitoral stimulation and vaginal penetration at the same time. The best dual-action vibrators come with smooth curves to fit perfectly in the palm of your hand. And if you’re lucky, your dual-action vibe might even guide you to an elusive blended orgasm.

Narrowing Down Your Search

Now that you’ve chosen the right type of vibrator, it’s time to narrow down your search to find “The One.” Here are a few factors you’ll want to consider depending on what type of vibrator you want:

• What’s it made of? It’s always a good idea to stick to body-safe materials. While plastics are often less expensive, they can feel rough and uncomfortable. Glass dildos can be smooth, but may be more intimidating for a newbie. If you’re searching for something in between, that is both smooth and cost-effective, medical-grade silicone is a great choice. It’s ultra-soft, easy to clean, and long-lasting, making it the perfect option for beginners and sex toy connoisseurs.
• How powerful is it? If you’re new to getting off with a toy, it’s normal to be unsure about what speed and power settings you’ll need. Consider buying a vibrator with a range of settings so you can play around with different intensities and vibration patterns. This will allow you to find your sweet spot.
• Is it battery-operated or rechargeable? Rechargeable vibrators tend to be more expensive, but you’ll avoid the ongoing cost of replacing batteries. Plus, rechargeable toys are usually more powerful, and most vibrators can hold their charge for a few hours of continuous use.
• How big is it? Check the dimensions before placing your order to make sure you’re happy with the size. Pictures can be deceiving, and the vibrator you’re eyeing might be bigger or smaller than you thought. Again, don’t be afraid to go big if that’s what you like.
• Is it waterproof? Waterproof and water-resistant aren’t the same. While waterproof means you can fully submerge your toy in water, water-resistant just means you can get a few drops of water on your toy without ruining it. If you’re fantasizing about some bathtime fun, you’ll want to invest in a waterproof toy. Even if you’re not planning to get buzzy in the bathroom, waterproof toys typically make for a much easier cleanup.
• How quiet is it? If you live with roommates or family members, narrow your search to “whisper-quiet” vibrators (but take this phrase with a grain of salt). To be extra discreet, check whether the product specifications give the decibel level—50 dB is an ideal range.

Fulfill Your Deepest Desires and Needs

Shopping for your first vibrator can feel intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be. With 12 different vibration settings, the Iridescence vibrator is the perfect starter toy whether you plan to keep her in your bedside drawer, in your suitcase, or next to the bathtub.

Not only does she feature two pleasure points, but she’s also equipped with the ideal curves to fit in your hand. Surprise your partner in the bedroom, spend some time getting to know your body, or play around with different intensities to transform your self-pleasure sessions.

Order your Iridescence today to dive headfirst into the magical world of sex toys and unlock a whole new world of sensations.