9 Lesbian Sex Positions That Will Blow Your Mind
Whether you’re lesbian, bi, fluid, or experimenting, exploring another woman’s body can feel amazing and incredibly pleasurable. It can also feel confusing at times, with a lack of examples and material when it comes to trying out different lesbian sex positions.
The male-gaze porn industry often fetishizes lesbian sex and rarely depicts realistic positioning and pleasuring. Even shows and movies that include intimate girl-on-girl scenes don’t usually get it right.
The good news, though, is that when it comes to lesbian sex, exploration is one of the best parts of it! Trying out new and different positions with your partner can be exciting and extremely intimate. And if you’re lacking ideas or aren’t sure where to start, we have 9 different lesbian sex positions to get you started. So grab your partner, click on some sexy tunes, and have fun exploring these positions together.
Scissoring
Best for: Dual partner stimulation, clitoral orgasms
This is a classic for a reason. Rubbing the clit is the most common way women achieve orgasm, and scissoring does exactly that. Rub your clits against each other until it feels right while gazing into each other’s eyes, cuddling, licking, and teasing different erogenous zones.
69 Sideways
Best for: Dual partner stimulation, oral sex, clitoral orgasms
What’s better than receiving oral sex? To simultaneously enjoy both giving and receiving it! Another classic lesbian sex position, sideways 69 allows you to relax on your side while focusing on what’s important—dual pleasure. (It’s also a great way to avoid neck strain!)
Just lie sideways and place your crotch on your partner’s face while they do the same. Start gently by teasing each other. Once you’re both fully aroused, proceed with a fast rhythm. For added kink, slow down as soon as you feel they’re about to cum and repeat to build up to a more intense orgasm.
Queening
Best for: Oral sex, clitoral orgasms
If you’re ready to sit in your power, try sitting on your partner’s face! Queening is a super empowering lesbian sex position that will have you screaming “yasss, queen!” and all other sorts of things. The main difference between queening and traditional face-sitting is that the partner on top turns around in the opposite direction. This gives the partner on the bottom a unique vantage point to use her mouth, tongue, face, and fingers to stimulate both the G-spot and the clit, building up to a powerful blended orgasm. The partner on top is in full control of speed and rhythm, making the orgasm as intense as they want it to be.
Oral Buffet
Best for: Oral sex
This position is perfect for a full-out oral feast. Have the receiving partner sit upright on a chair or the edge of a bed and spread her legs wide. The giving partner then kneels on a pillow in front while the receiver wraps her legs around their neck and tilts her pelvis closer to the edge. The kneeling partner can then go to town, like an all-you-can-eat buffet.
This is a sexy position for dom play, too. Enjoy the passive position of the kneeling partner while the receiver takes control by steering her hips and placing her hand on the back of her partner’s head for added direction and pressure. If you want to try for a blended orgasm, add in your favorite vibrator while using the tongue to stimulate the clit. Or, if you want to free up her mouth to kiss other areas, switch to a dual action vibrator that will stimulate both the clit and the g-spot while the giver is free to use her mouth in other ways.
Up Against the Wall
Best for: Oral sex, kink
Does the thought of being up against the wall while your partner kneels in front of you, focused on pleasuring you, make you wet? We thought so! The pressure of a wall will give you much-needed support when your body starts to writhe in ecstasy. Ask them to kiss and nibble your inner thighs before penetrating you with their fingers or toy. And if you want to up the kink, try out some beginner bondage knots to give your partner more control of your pleasure.
Spooning with a Dual-Action Vibrator
Best for: Penetration, toys, blended orgasms
Who doesn’t like spooning, sex or not? Curling into your partner and feeling their body against yours is extremely comforting and intimate. It can also be extremely arousing. So next time you’re spooning, have the big spoon partner begin to kiss along the little spoon’s neck and ear while whispering sexy dirty talk. Once the little spoon gets more aroused, the big spoon can run her hands along her partner’s breasts, hips, and finally between her thighs.
This is the perfect position for using a dual action vibrator! Being behind your partner makes it easy to grip the curved handle and position the dual action vibrator perfectly to stimulate both her g-spot and clitoris at the same time. The receiving partner can then play with the controls or use her free hands to caress her breasts. If the big spoon is too turned on to take, she can simply wrap her leg over her partner and grind onto her partner’s backside for clitoral stimulation.
The pretzel
Best for: Dual partner stimulation, clitoral orgasms
For a more intimate position, try the pretzel. Simply kneel in front of each other, each placing a knee between the other’s legs so that your vulvas are resting on each other’s thighs. Then, you can start grinding against one another, rubbing your clit back and forth, in circular motions, or bumping. The best part about this position is that it gives each partner complete control over what feels good for them while creating an extremely intimate bond that allows you to kiss, hug, and rub each other.
Reverse Cowgirl
Best for: Penetration, toys, blended orgasms
Saddle up and prepare to have a blended orgasm with a go-to lesbian sex position that stimulates both the clit and G-spot. The penetrating partner uses a strap-on while the partner on top straddles the strap on, facing away from her partner’s face. The angle of this position is great for reaching the G-spot and makes the clit more accessible. It’s one of the best lesbian sex positions to try if you want to experience clitoral and vaginal orgasms simultaneously.
Girl-on-Girl Doggy
Best for: Penetration, toys, blended orgasms
Girl-on-girl doggy style is a sexy move that gives you plenty of space to stimulate the clitoris and penetrate your partner while they’re on their hands and knees. Use a strap-on, vibrator, or fingers in a grinding motion for penetration. This lesbian sex position gives you better control and heightens your partner’s arousal for not being able to see what is happening. Let your imagination run wild and spice it up with sexy bites, strokes, and hair-pulling. Or, make it more intimate by bending over her body and rubbing your skin together while you kiss and nibble along her neck, ears, and back.
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