19 Sexy Valentines Day Ideas
No matter what type of relationship you’re in or how you feel about the holiday, it’s no secret that Valentine’s Day is right around the corner. And even if the calendar catches up to you, we have some good news: With a little planning, you can have a tantalizing Valentine’s Day that rivals a romantic restaurant—and doesn’t require pants.
So, what are you waiting for? Here’s everything you need to make your Valentine’s Day extra special (and extra sexy) this year.
1. Plan a Massage Session
Look: There’s nothing hotter than passionate Valentine’s Day sex, but sometimes it’s all about the build-up. Sure, you can spend hundreds on a bougie couple’s massage somewhere, but you can also set the mood at home with a sensual Nuru massage.
2. Try Some BDSM
You don’t have to go full-blown Fifty Shades here, but if you’re interested in dipping your toes into the wonderful world of BDSM or light bondage, there’s no better time than V-Day. After talking about your boundaries, grab a pair of handcuffs and play around with power dynamics.
3. Take a Sex Workshop
Want to experiment with some new techniques? Take a sex workshop together to discover some new kinks and learn new moves. There are courses for pretty much every type of sex, and you can find workshops online or in person, depending on how hands-on you want to be.
4. Experiment With Temperature Play
If you want to heat things up (literally), temperature play is the answer. From ice cubes to melted wax, surprising your partner with different sensations can be an ahhh-mazing way to heighten their sensations and boost arousal.
5. Sext Each Other
Spending the day at work? Running errands? Send each other super-hot sexts to build up the tension for later that night. When you’re finally in the same room, you won’t be able to resist each other.
6. Read Erotica
Watching porn with your partner might feel a little awkward, but it’s not the only option. Try reading erotic stories to each other to kickstart your foreplay with some sexy new ideas.
7. Share Your Favorite Vibrator
It’s always fun to have a solo sesh with your buzzy babe, so why not add your partner to the equation? You can show them exactly what you like, let them take control, or even use it on them if you want to show them just how good it can feel.
8. Master the Art of Roleplay
Pretend you’re the teacher and your partner is the student. Or, your partner is the pizza delivery guy, and you want to give them a special tip. The possibilities are endless here, and there’s tons of room to explore with your dirtiest roleplay fantasies.
9. Get Dressed Up
Greet your partner wearing nothing but your favorite lingerie and your most tantalizing perfume. And remember: You don’t have to wear the skimpiest, laciest teddy out there—it’s all about feeling sexy and comfortable in your own skin.
10. Try Mutual Masturbation
If you’re into masturbation and your partner is too (hint: they probably are), you can try some mutual masturbation—touching yourself while your partner watches and touches themselves too. Your main goal is to get yourself off, yourself.
11. Watch Porn Together
It might be tempting to binge your favorite Netflix shows, but it’s time to switch things up. Find some porn geared toward the female gaze (AKA where women actually look like they’re having a good time). Turn down the lights, watch it with your partner, and let the magic happen.
12. Take a Hot Bath
When you’re both ready to wind down for the night, light some candles, put on your favorite Spotify playlist, and run a bubble bath. Don’t forget to bring your favorite waterproof vibrator for an extra-streamy V-Day bath.
13. Go On a Road Trip
Who said road trips had to be boring? Plan a trip to a nearby city, spend some time exploring, and treat your partner to some road head (or, better yet, mind-blowing car sex) on the way home.
14. Find Your G-Spot
The G-spot is pretty controversial, but trust us: it exists. It’s located just underneath your front vaginal wall. You can use a rabbit vibrator to stimulate your G-spot for more intense orgasms, or you can try out new sex positions for some seriously good sensations.
15. Make Sexy Playlists
Collab with your partner to create a playlist of your favorite sexy songs for V-Day. For bonus points, pick your favorite songs with different beats and tempos so you can enjoy allll kinds of rides together.
16. Eat Your Favorite Foods
Fun fact: You don’t have to eat dessert at the dinner tables. Bring your ice cream, whipped cream, or fave dessert into the bedroom and serve it on your partner for an extra sweet treat.
17. Bliss Out With Tantric Breathing
Tantric breathing is a form of sexual meditation where you’re encouraged to explore your deepest sensations during sex. It’s all about connecting with your partner in a more intimate way—and it’s the perfect way to reignite your spark on V-Day.
18. Try Something New
If you’ve been fantasizing about anal sex, there’s no better time to broaden your horizons than Valentine’s Day. Be sure to start slow, use looots of lube, and set boundaries with your partner before experimenting with backdoor play.
19. Write Out Your Fantasies
It can be pretty intimidating to spill your kinks and fantasies for your partner, but putting pen to paper can help unlock your confidence. Take some time to write sexy letters to each other and swap them. To make things even more fun, read each other’s stories out loud.
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